I prefer red marbles

"Peas & Marbles"


Mrs Miller was bagging some early potatoes for me. I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I Paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes. Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller and the ragged boy next to me.

"Hello Barry, how are you today?"

"H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. Sure look good."

"They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?"

"Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time."

"Good. Anything I can help you with?"

"No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas."

"Would you like to take some home?"

"No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with."

"Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?"

"All I got's my prize marble here."

"Is that right? Let me see it."

"Here 'tis. She's a dandy."

"I can see that. Hmmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?"

"Not zackley. but almost."

"Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble."

"Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller."

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me. With a smile she said, "There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever. When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, perhaps."

I left the stand smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his viewing that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts, all very professional looking.

They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket. Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket.

Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and mentioned the story she had told me about the marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

"Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim "traded" them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size....they came to pay their debt."

"We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world," she confided, "but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho "

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.






~~Author Unknown~~

Moral of the story: We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds.
Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Recently, I've been considering what it truly means to be a good steward of what we have and have considered this story and the stories of others I've known personally in my own life. I have concluded that being a good steward of what you have requires having a heart to serve. Anyone who knows me knows that my faith is important to me. In times past, however, my faith didn't play as big of a role in the stewardship of the resources I had. However, I'm constantly trying to do better. When I look at the "Peas and Marbles" story I see these things: 

1.) A man who knew how to be a good steward of his resources-You see, Mr. Miller realized that it was more important to feed a hungry family than to worry about making another dollar. He also realized that he didn't need another dollar to expand his store or buy greater, fancier things. No, he realized that all the wealth he needed came from doing what was right.

2.) An impact that lasted longer than words alone ever could.- What would have happened if Mr. Miller had chosen to be greedy and serve his own interests before others? What would have happened if Mr. Miller had chosen to expand his store in hopes of expanding his pocket book? What would have happened if Mr. Miller had considered the little boys second class citizens and not worthy of his time? I know what would have happened. Three hearts would have never been impacted. Three men may have possibly never knew the value of being a good steward, the value of being a servant at heart. 

You see, being a good steward of the things you have requires you to  consider the needs of others. It requires you to be a "Mr.Miller"-someone who willingly and happily gives of what he has without expecting anything in return. 

I'm honored to say that I know and have known a few "Mr. Miller's" in my short 23 years on this earth. I can promise you this about them too: No one will ever forget them!

So today, make up your mind to be a "Mr.Miller" Red marbles are better anyway!

I realize today that sometimes the measure of a man can be found in his willingness to be a "Mr. Miller" with the resources he possesses. That, my friends, is just a few thoughts from a small town southern man!